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Roles, positions, practices and the words on the apps, explained without blushing.

Gives, doesn't take. Allegedly in short supply.

Receptive, not passive. Ask any power bottom.

Tops, bottoms, and keeps his options open.

Not top, not bottom, still very much on the menu.

He's the one getting fucked, and the one in charge.

Faster. Slower. No, the other left.

He tops, you come first. Very much at your service.

Pillow princess

Lies back, enjoys the service, sends a thank-you note.

First he tops, then you do. Fair's fair.

Eating ass, the century-old gay way of saying it.

The cleanup crew of cum play. Not for the faint-hearted.

The fine art of patience, lube and trust. Also known as FF.

Almost there, almost there... not yet.

Dick on dick, face to face, nobody has to bottom.

Two ships, one foreskin. Uncut required, for at least one.

Bareback, with the load left inside. The farmyard is intentional.

No saddle, no condom. Scandal in 1997, routine in the PrEP era.

Bareback, said shorter and with less drama.

All loads welcome, and he is keeping count.

What he shoots, what you take, what everyone's counting.

The load left inside, and the camera waiting for it.

The black belt of the blowjob.

The spa treatment, minus the cucumber slices.

Don't swallow, share. The kiss is the point.

Hands only, everyone watching. The most social way to come.

Porn, lube, a friendly hand, and everyone home by ten.

Hands only. Simple, safe, and surprisingly popular.

Not that kind of water, and definitely not that kind of sport.

The bathroom part of bottoming.

The hour before the hookup that tops never see.

A two-minute rush in a little brown bottle.

Party means drugs, play means sex.

Sex on meth, G and mephedrone, for hours or days.

Chemsex with a needle, and twice the risk.

Sex, then goodbye. No texts required.

Sex now, small talk optional, breakfast not included.

Straight by day, and nobody needs to know about the night.

No face, no names, no hello in public.

The pill, or shot, that took the fear out of sex.

Undetectable means he can't pass it on. Science, not wishful thinking.